About Me

I came to therapy because of my own experiences of trauma, and the way I work today is heavily informed by my own journey.
Many of us get really good at carrying on. We go to work, look after other people, and keep everything ticking over. Before we know it, we're no longer sure what our needs are, or perhaps we've never really known what they are or how to get them met in the first place.
At some point, we might begin to notice that something doesn't feel quite right. Maybe life feels harder than it used to. Maybe there's a sense of feeling stuck, disconnected, exhausted, or simply unsure of what's going on.
I also understand the fear of wondering what might happen if you finally stopped and paid attention to how you're feeling. Would it all become too much? Would everything start to unravel? If you allowed yourself to feel the grief, anger, sadness or exhaustion you've been carrying, what then?
In my experience, therapy isn't about opening the floodgates and hoping for the best. It's about having somewhere to make sense of what's going on, at a pace that feels manageable.
I work integratively, with a particular interest in the body. My own journey and chinese background taught me that our bodies often tell a story long before we've found the words for it. Anxiety, depression, and past experiences can show up as tension, exhaustion, numbness, restlessness, brain fog, or simply a feeling that something isn't quite right.
Because of this, I often invite curiosity about what's happening in the body as well as what's happening in the mind. Sometimes I might share something I'm noticing in myself and ask whether it resonates with you. Not because I have the answer, but because it can help us understand your experience from a different angle.
I'm particularly interested in the mixed race identity, belonging, and neurodivergence. Much of my work involves helping people understand themselves with greater compassion and make sense of responses that often developed for very good reasons.
I hope therapy offers you a space where you don't have to have everything figured out, and where you can begin to reconnect with yourself in a way that feels safe, supportive and a little less lonely.

Decolonial Values
Traditional Therapy can sometimes feel hierarchical or focused solely on individual dynamics rather than systemic reality. My practice is built on equal partnership, transparency, and deep respect for cross cultural perspectives. I am committed to continuous self reflection, unlearning oppressive practices, and creating an inclusive space where your full, authentic self is welcomed and understood.
Why Choose Unfolding with Jess
I chose the name “Unfolding with Jess” after listening to a talk by Alan Watts, drawing from Daoist philosophy, where he reflects that flowers and trees don’t hurry to grow, they slowly unfold. Healing and self-discovery feel the same. We don’t force change; we create the conditions for growth, and allow ourselves to open in our own time.
Diverse Therapeutic Methods
Human experience is far too nuanced for a single blueprint. My practice integrates humanistic, psychodynamic, relational, and cognitive frameworks, meeting you wherever you are on the spectrum of mind and feeling. For some, psychoeducation provides a grounding map to make sense of overwhelming experiences. For others, cognitive understanding is already a core strength, and our work offers a gentle invitation to explore feelings and somatic processing alongside it. Whatever your natural way of operating, we adapt our approach to support your whole self.
Mind-Body Integration
True healing requires bringing the body into the conversation. What we often call 'symptom' is frequently the body's intelligent response to systemic pressure and lived experiences. By turning into physical sensations and nervous system cues alongside verbal dialogue, we move at a pace that respects your body's boundaries, offering gentle ways to process stored stress and reconnect with embodied calm.
Relational Depth
Above all else, I believe therapy is built on connection, not clinical distance. To me, being "relational" means showing up as a real human first :) While I hold the theoretical frameworks and professional responsibility, I don't hide behind a formal mask or pretend the power dynamic between therapist and client doesn't exist. We work transparently and collaboratively, building a grounded partnership where you are met with my warmth, honesty, and deep respect.

In Their Own Words
Voices from our shared therapy space, sharing what it has been like to explore and work together.

“No matter what I brought up, or how I brought it up, Jess was always willing to offer support and actively listened to the things I had to say, even if we did get off track a little sometimes. The six sessions I had, while I would have preferred more, were extremely vital to my progression as a human being.”

“My sessions with Jess helped me in so many ways, not just with the immediate impact of a family bereavement but also in dealing with events from my childhood and adolescence that I’d avoided for years. I feel a greater sense of resilience as a result. You need to be prepared, it can be emotional and a bit draining, but you can trust Jess to guide you through this and find your own strength as you go. I gained some much needed perspective, shed some needless guilt and feel calmer and more confident as a result.”

“I found Jess to be very very in tune with me and her guidance, professional advice and support was always extremely helpful. She helped me connect my hormonal cycle to some of my emotional experiences which I resonated with. Jess was really patient & understanding with me and I felt she really listened. Thank you so much! xxx”

“Jess delivered support at a pace that suited me, with extreme care and consideration to my needs for each individual session. There was a lot of methods I learned that are extremely valueable to me now.”
“Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion.”
― Bell HooksAll About Love: New Visions

“I worked with Jess for two years, and throughout she always held my cultural background and spiritual beliefs whilst not being afraid to bring in the psychology to help me reflect. I’m very grateful for our time together.”
Business Hours
I normally work Tuesday to Thursday during the day, but if you need an earlier morning or evening slot, please let me know and I'll do my best to accommodate you.
- Monday
- Closed
- Tue – Thu
- 09:00 am – 06:00 pm
- Fri – Sun
- Closed